Christian dating past relationships
But character is the foundation upon which commitment is built.
Character does not change just because one gets married.
There is an attraction to each other and Christian singles immediately (or soon thereafter) think they have found their soul mate.
Candidly, there is really little more in the Christian dating relationship during this stage than “physical attraction”. There is a temptation for Christian singles to begin saying, “I love you” during this fantasy stage. The emphasis should be upon enjoying each other’s company and building a FRIENDSHIP and refraining from going any further. After 2 to 3 months of this type of dating and it is mutually agreed, the Christian dating relationship can move into an exclusive dating arrangement.
Our emotions need to “grow” into this type of deep Christian dating relationship.
Pushing the pace causes areas of each other’s character to not be observed.
The progress of the Christian dating relationship should be shared so that their objectivity and accountability can be a valuable resource to the couple. Once a couple is satisfied that there is something to take to the next level, the couple should develop a plan in how they can best get to know each other in “real settings” not just in Christian dating situations.
It serves as a basis for building the Christian dating relationship into as healthy a one as possible BEFORE marriage.
(I highly recommend the inventories developed by Dr. There are many counselors who can provide Christian singles with insights into the results found in these inventories.
You need to know “what they are really like” before you move into a marital relationship. The couple has spent a good deal of time building their Christian dating relationship.
They mutually agree that this relationship has the great potential of moving into marriage.